Who needs a Prenuptial Agreement?

Ideally, all couples looking to get married should at least engage in the process of getting a prenuptial agreement.  As I’ve said before, negotiating a prenuptial agreement provides a very valuable opportunity for couples to discuss their mutual financial situations, their outlook on finances and their future goals.
I’m often surprised when I do estate planning [...]

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Agreements on Sex in Prenups

There are not a lot of things you can’t include in a prenuptial agreement.  One of those things I talked about in previous posts were provisions regarding children.  Another one are provisions regarding sex during the marriage.
I have had requests to include provisions dealing with a sex schedule for the couple.  In those cases, I [...]

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Information to bring to your prenup consultation

You’ve decided with your fiance that you both want to have a prenuptial agreement drawn up and signed before getting married.  You’ve even gone as far as each retaining separate attorneys.  You’re now ready to meet with your respective attorneys for the first time.  Please don’t go into the office empty handed because it will [...]

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Children and Prenuptial Agreements

I often get asked what can be included in a prenuptial agreement and if what they want to do is “odd” or “weird”.  You can do anything you want with a prenuptial agreement.  If you want to make everything separate before marriage, during marriage and/or after marriage, you can do so.  If you only want [...]

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Can one attorney represent both parties in a prenup?

Just like in any healthy, normal relationship where it takes 2 people to make it work – when a prenup is drafted, there should be 2 attorneys.  One attorney represents one party and the other attorney represents the other soon-to-be-spouse.
In addition to drafting prenuptial agreements, I also handle a lot of divorce cases.  I’ve seen [...]

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Is a Massachusetts Prenuptial Agreement valid everywhere?

Yes.  A prenuptial agreement is simply a contract.  A valid contract is valid in all 50 states despite the change in divorce laws and location.
What about states like California and New Mexico that have community property?
Well, in those states, your prenuptial agreement will still be valid!  Community property laws or the Equitable Division laws of [...]

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Love is…

For all my prenuptial agreement clients who are getting married this summer; for all my future clients who will be getting married; and for couples who are not my clients – have a great, long-lasting and happy marriage.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. [...]

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Same-sex marriage and prenuptial agreements

All gay, lesbian and same-sex couples who are planning to marry should get a prenuptial agreement.  This is more important for a same-sex couple than for a heterosexual couple.  Let me explain.
Because of the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), constitutional bans on same-sex marriage in other states, and a lack of same-sex marriage laws in [...]

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Does a prenuptial agreement need to be fair?

Yes and no.
In one of my previous posts, I had talked about the criteria for upholding a prenuptial agreement in court and one of the factors was fairness.  When I talk about fairness, it is on a spectrum of how unfair it is.  It’s not whether the prenuptial agreement is fair – or not.
A prenuptial [...]

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Married For Love – Not Money

This post isn’t about not being a gold-digger or a follow-up to my Divorced but Living Together post.  Now that that’s out of the way…
In a recent article in DETAILS magazine, Yaran Noti writes about marriages where couples keep completely separate finances.  Now, they are married and they live together.  They just simply keep separate bank accounts, credit [...]

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